For many people, flying is already a nightmare. For people with endometriosis, there’s an added layer of difficulty. In this multi-part series, “Flying with Endometriosis”, I want to talk about some of things we can do to make travel a bit easier.
I’m back! I’m in Australia again, the jetlag is slowly dissipating, and I have a shiny new computer on which to write blog posts (just as well, because writing them on my phone is tricky and tedious). And on the way, I learned a couple of things that make me want to either reiterate, correct or edit things I’ve said previously.
1) Business is better
Like the bougie child I am, I flew business class this trip. No, I could not have afforded those tickets without financial help, and I am very lucky. However, I cannot overstate the difference it made to be able to lie flat – completely flat, even at 5’10” – rather than being sat up the entire flight. This is particularly so on the way back, when I was bloated, sore and touch-sensitive from the surgery. Having fewer people battling for the loos was also very important, as the surgery caused some interesting issues for my bladder and bowels.
If you are in a bracket where you can afford business class but are cringing at the unnecessary expense, I would encourage you to look at it less as a luxury and more of a way to avoid 24 hours of pain.
2) I should have packed differently
I needn’t have bothered with my Kindle as I ended up buying several fascinating books on my trip. I didn’t open my Kindle once.
I should have packed a second Divinity collection Maxi. Comfy as my leggings and my two-sizes-too-big jeans are, the flowing freedom of this dress was exactly what I needed, because on several days it got the point where I could not possibly wear something with a waistband. It was also too cold to wear my shorter knit dress from Review more than once. The longer dress helped cover my cold legs.
I should have remembered that Singapore Airlines Business Class is pretty luxe. I didn’t really need so many products as the airline had a bunch in the airplane loo. That being said, I would stand by bringing them in my carry-on if I had not been flying Business.
Overall, I think I packed pretty well. I wore everything I took and used pretty much everything except the Kindle. I did have a problem with buying too much in the UK and not having enough room for it all on the way back, though, so I had to use my poor mother as a shopping mule. Shopping in the UK is so much better than here.
3) I should have taken laxatives
Ok, so this one is a bit gross, but endo peeps will know what I’m talking about. Post-surgery you are in a LOT of pain at first, so they give you a number of serious painkillers. I had a morphine button – a button I could press any time I felt pain to get a shot of morphine – and morphine (plus the follow-up codeine) makes you as constipated as you can get. My surgery was Saturday. I didn’t poop until Wednesday (in a public toilet on an island full of squirrels, by the way), and I was chugging this weird liquid laxative they gave me (both gross and ineffective) and drinking prune juice like it was going out of style. I know the laxatives I buy normally work (they are only in case of emergency and they just shoot through you). I should have taken them and avoided three days of extra constipation pain, which I did not need.
4) I was 100% right to take my pillow and blanket
That pillow I mentioned that I took as carry-on was 100% the right call. It was more comfortable to use on the flight and it was vital post-surgery. I used it to:-
- Protect my stomach from the seatbelt;
- Prop up my knees to relieve tension on my back when shoulder-tip pain prevented me from sleeping on my side;
- Tuck under one side of my distended tummy post-op so it didn’t flop awkwardly and painfully to one side
- Hug to my torso as for comfort, cushioning and security;
- Prop myself up in bed.
The blanket was great because I tend to get cold very easily after an operation, and the heating in my bedroom was all over the place. I only used it once on the flight but since it tucks easily into the pillowcase having it there was hardly an imposition.
5) Taking an extra three days off work was the right call
I arrived back in Australia late on Friday night. Originally I was supposed to go back to work on the Monday. Instead I arranged to return on the Thursday. Definitely a good idea. Jetlag + post-op pain does not a happy combination make, and those extra three days were really important in my recovery. I’m far from 100% yet, but I’d be far worse if I’d forged ahead with work on Monday.
6) I could not have done this alone
Having surgery unsupported is very difficult anyway. Having it unsupported in a country that you don’t normally live in, where you have to organise transport and accommodation, would have been overwhelming. If not for my family – particularly my mother – supporting me physically, emotionally and financially, I could not have managed the surgery. Recovery is hard and at times scary. I need someone with me, and I am so grateful I had that.
That pretty much concludes my series on flying with endometriosis. Over the next few weeks you can expect a lot of posts about the surgery and recovery, but also about the places I visited because England is amazing and I want to move back there. Hope you enjoy it!