For many people, flying is already a nightmare. For people with endometriosis, there’s an added layer of difficulty. In this multi-part series, “Flying with Endometriosis”, I want to talk about some of things we can do to make travel a bit easier.
What is the first priority on a plane (except from arriving at your destination, of course)? Comfort! Planes are not the most comfortable, particularly if you are crammed into economy. With endometriosis, it’s even less comfortable. You’re stuck in pretty much one position for hours at a time and you have to line up for ages to use the toilet. Then you have to walk around a heap in the airports. Enduring all that, you can bet your [insert noun here] I want to be comfy. Trouble is, I also want to look good, partly because I am vain and shallow and partly because it makes me feel more confident, alert and prepared.
I’ve already discussed how to dress an endo belly, but when you are travelling you really have to take comfort to the next level. If you are more of a video person, I highly recommend checking out Miss Louie, who is one of my favourite youtubers. She’s done this video and this one with a whole bunch of easy-to-wear travel outfits. There’s something for everyone.
However, if you prefer a written list or simply can’t see Miss Louie’s options working for you, read on for a more general discussion.
In choosing an outfit, I think there are some questions you should ask yourself:-
- Does this press on my pelvis when sitting, standing or lying?
- Does it press on my pelvis if I swell up?
- Does this press on any other joints that tend to get sore or swollen?
These three are the most important, because that is ultimately what will dictate if an outfit is going to be comfy for a person with endo. Anyone who suffers from flareups knows that something digging into your pelvis when it is sore and swollen if just horrific. For some people, this may mean that any pants at all are off the table and you need to look at a dress instead. For others, leggings or even super stretchy jeans or an elastic-waisted skirt will be fine.
The remaining questions are more general and probably less of a deal-breaker than the above three, but still worth thinking of:-
- Are there any buttons, zips, or other decorative things that will dig into you?
- Is it comfy enough to sleep in?
- Will it ride up and flash things it shouldn’t?
- Will it give you a wedgie?
- Will it wrinkle easily/does it look bad wrinkly?
- Can you take layers off if you get too hot or add layers if you get too cold?
- Do your shoes slip off easily for going through security?
If it will dig in, isn’t comfy, rides up, wrinkles, can’t layer and your shoes require a lot of lacing or other fiddling, don’t wear it. It will be a hassle. It will be uncomfortable, you will not sleep as well and you will get to the other end looking and feeling less than stellar.
My go-to for flights is this combination.
All of these items are from Modcloth, except the boots which are from Betts. (Yes, I used Stylebook to put this together). They are a few years old so I doubt anyone dying of envy about my incredible stylishness will be able to get those exact items, however. From the bottom up:
- Knee-high riding boots might not be as easy to slip in and out of as a pair of slip-on trainers, ballet flats, or ankle boots, but I know that I will wear them a lot in the UK so if I don’t wear them, I’d have to pack them anyway. As they are my heaviest shoes, it makes sense to carry them on my feet rather than haul them all over the airport in my suitcase. They do still come on and off easily, and look good with my leggings.
- Under my boots I’ll be wearing a pair of compression socks, to avoid DVT, or Deep Vein Thrombosis, which is a blood clot that forms in the leg. You won’t necessarily get it if you don’t wear them, but if you do, it can be super dangerous. It’s very easy for DVT to become life-threatening in a very short space of time. I’ll also use the compression socks in hospital after my operation, so they are good investment, if not the comfiest. As I wrote earlier, I’ll have cosy socks to wear over them on the flight, because I kick my boots off as soon as the seatbelt sign goes off.
- I love these leggings because they have actual function pockets that can hold a lip balm or spare change. They are a little small for my phone, but having pockets at all is great. They are thick and warm but not too hard on the old pelvis.
- Underneath the top I’ll be wearing this singlet from Boody. Incredibly soft and comfy (with the added bonus of being ethically made and environmentally friendly), the singlet will just provide an extra layer of warmth, help preserve modesty if something happens with my top, and let me take a top layer off if somehow my flight gets stranded in Dubai with no air-conditioning again. Seriously not fun. I nearly passed out.
- The top itself is just loose, soft and very comfy, but a bit fun with the patterned sleeves. It helps make it just a little less basic.
- The cardigan is loose and voluminous so I can wrap it around me. It has a deep hood so I can cover my face in case I loose my eye mask for the flight, and hide the fact that I’ve got a sheet mask on or suchlike. It looks a little more dressy than, say, my Batman hoodie, but it is still comfy and casual.
I’ve flown with this outfit before and it was comfortable and practical. Post-surgery the leggings might be a little tight or irritate the incision sites – if that happens, I’ll switch to a long-sleeved maxi dress from Divinity collection. It’s not quite as ideal as they are incredibly long so they do drag on the floor and do wrinkle a bit. However, it is very comfy, will keep my covered when I lie down, and is an easy canvas to accessorise. My pelvis will be totally free to do its thing and I will be warm, my modesty will be protected, and I should still look pretty acceptable when I stumble into my husband’s arms when I arrive back in Australia. I’ll be taking both my black and my burgundy ones in my suitcase in any event.
Do you have a go-to travel outfit? What do you look for in travelling clothes, either generally or to protect yourself from endo pain? Let me know in the comments!